The Other Woman (or man)

In the society where romanced has been replaced with facebook and the like, secret romances have flourished and some have become not-so-secret! Those pastors like Randy Frazier and Eddie Long *cough cough* have had to undergone media scrutiny, lawsuits and face their friends and families for secret romances gone wrong!

We've become more publicly aware of such romances thanks to the likes of those reverends and prominent figures such as Arnold Schwarzenegger, Bill Clinton, Tiki Barber, Jesse James and who could forget the infamous Tiger Woods. All of these men have one thing in common, THEY COULDN'T KEEP THEIR JOHNNY BOYS IN THEIR PANTS!
I wonder how their ladies felt when the news was handed to them, I imagine a feeling of betrayal and utter disbelief. This lying mofo got his dick up in some other woman's junk (or man, not judging) while you're home taking care of the kids, the house and being the dutiful wife home boy out sowing his oats! Hell hath no furry like a woman scorned, especially a  woman with no prenup (to my married readers). Take dude to the cleaners if counselling isn't the road to travel, let him finance your shopping spree *cough* I mean grief. I'm sure a few new outfits, a  new hairstyle and some much needed 'you time' will help ease you down the road to recovery, especially if this came out of left field.
That being said do not allow the workings of your inner mind to fool you into believing that the mistress, the 'other woman' (or man) orchestrated this whole ordeal, unless of course its someone in your very own circle.  Often enough you find that because of the new technology men/women can lie quite easily about their marital status with a slim to none chance of being caught. Damn you FACEBOOK/TAGGED/CHRISTIAN MINGLE!! It always takes two tango so deal with your mate before you decide to show up on Quishanette's job and make a scene!

Case and point:
Because of the new revelations of twitter I have seen/read about the inner workings of a relationship being unraveled. There was a young man, lets call him Christian who was known to be a major flirt, his business was ladies and ladies helped propel his business! Well one day "Christian" (wink wink boo boo) decided to settle down with a woman who knew more about the world then he ever would. Poor "Christian" never knew how badly he was in over his head. This lady had already ruined her name in many circles and had now moved on to his.Smitten with her "exotic" (*cough bullshit cough*) Christian proceeded to woo, wine and dine this woman hoping to make her his girl.
As the months rolled on Christian had to alienate himself from the ladies he once associated himself with and had to change his friends, all to make this lady happy. Christian did all of this to make her happy and things seemed to be going well, but old habits die hard and Christian who never got over another lady friend started visiting her once again. To those who knew these ladies they were like night day and Christian were attracted to them both for obvious different reasons. The lady friend was aware of Christian's relationship status and she played her role and played it well.
 It came a time when she no longer wished to continue to see Christian and although he was upset there wasn't much that he could do. He tried to get her to say but the lady had found her self respect and refused.
Well boys and girls needless to say the other lady got wind of it and being hurt and insecure she tried to make friends with the mistress and in turn attempted to start drama, all in order to have a valid reason to dislike this lady.
Given it was wrong, this is not the way to go out about it. Christian's lady should have addressed him and then went from there, but she didn't. The conclusion to the story is this Christian lady has now been looked at as an ass and everyone thinks she should grow up, because she chose not to deal with it or move on but instead cause drama. DEAL WITH YOUR MATE BEFORE YOU TAKE IT TO THE INTERNET LADIES/GUYS.
If you find yourself being the other woman I advise you to make a list, pro and con, ask yourself why are you with this individual, what does he/she give you that you cannot get from a single person, what makes them so special? Realize you're worth, and I know its easier said then done, but walk away. If he does it to her, he'll do it to you. Avoid the drama, find someone who loves you for you, wants you for you. There is nothing, other than some dick (and all the time that don't be good) , that with hard work and perseverance  you cannot do for yourself. Their money and limited affection is surely not worth it. Get that ass up and get it yourself!