Keeping it fresh: Romantic Ideas for him/her

In this day and age where technology has taken over and getting a girl/guys number on a piece of paper and the days of beepers have long since past things like skype, twitter, tagged, myspace, eharmony, christian mingle and facebook have become the new avenues for many seeking companionship.

While this has retracted somewhat from the mystery and the allure of getting to know someone, it has also made it easier to get a general sense of what it is this person wants/needs their goals an aspirations. The depths of many-a-minds have expanded, individuals thinking they were 'sharp" or "slick" have also used these new tools to procure different varieties of "cooch" and the male counterpart of the same.

Genuinely enough I've heard of and seen some e-relationships that have blossomed into beautiful relationships. Whether you've met your man/gal in the club, on tagged, at via cafe or on twitter, all relationships require some effort on both parts in order to keep it fresh and interesting. Interests fade and sparks die down but if you're in it for the long haul then here are some simple ideas to put a smile on your mates face.

Romantic Ideas For Him:

Ladies "blessing him" with your vagina and thinking that is enough is a delusion of grandeur and oddly enough your neighborhood jungaless would be willing to do that and more for a man she sees with potential, aka her future baby daddy.

Cook your man's favorite meal

Roll him over in the middle of the night and initiate intimacy

If he's into role play, dress up, or down, for him- pull out those heels he loves so much and strip for him. Laying on your back JUST WON'T CUT IT!

Share your romantic fantasies with your guy, you'd be surprised how much pleasure he'd get from fulfilling those desires for you!

Unplug the TV set, leave a note asking him to turn you on instead

give him a romantic massage, you're not the only one who's muscles ache

Make a simple list of 10 things about him that you absolutely love and why, whether they are physical or not, show your appreciation

LET HIM WATCH THE GAME IN PEACE-if sports isn't your thing leave him be, bring him a beer, his food, etc when the game is near its end sit beside him wearing his favorite jersey, and the jersey alone.

Show him the same consideration you'd like for him to show you, or someone else will.

Romantic Ideas for her:

For years and years men have attempted to woo women, they are the basics that have proven true time and time again. There is nothing wrong with sticking with what works, but a little change never hurt nobody *giggles*

Send your lady her favorite flowers, don't know what they are? Shame on you but not to worry roses are a timeless classic. Send her a dozen roses, 11 of the same and 1 very different color, let her know that she is that timeless beauty that stands out. As corny as it sounds she'll love it and be the envy of her friends/coworkers.

Take your girl to a karaoke bar, get up and sing for her. this should make her smile. We all don't have the voices of Brian McKnight an Babyface but she'd appreciate you trying :)

Burn her a cd of her favorite love songs, light some candles, get the oil and show her how special you think she is.

Send your lady her favorite chocolates and note, be creative I can't tell you everything.

If you can afford to send her to a spa day, they are more affordable than you think and she'd be very grateful.

Cook (or order some really good take out) and take her on a beach picnic, the dating shouldn't stop because the relationship begins!

Take a bath/shower together, its sure to lead somewhere you'll both enjoy.

Re-create your first date (if it was a good one) this let's her know you remember and you care.

Play some Sade, and do what comes naturally slowly ;)

If she has a hobby or a passion, get her a gift card- it shows you cared enough to be interested but respected her enough to allow her the freedom of choice.

Never take for granted women love feeling needed and appreciate the little things, a simple foot rub at times may suffice. Make the effort because Joe Grinds is somewhere lurking ready to fill in if you ever fall out.

All in all, time effort and communication will help to make your relationship stronger, never forget to show them how much he/she means to you and why you're worth the effort.