What She Wishes You Really Knew

After reading a very simple yet insightful article I've decided to share some of what I've discovered. I agreed with most things in the article and will try to provide a link to it so that it can be read in its entirety at your leisure.

Men and women differ greatly and the lines of communication are almost always crossed. Hopefully these few #whatshewishesyoureallyknew tid bits help to change the way things are perceived by our male counterparts.

1. I will leave if you lie.
(If she stays distrust will only further ruin an already sundered relationship.)

2. I love it when you hug me from behind and whisper in my ear.

3. "Fine" is never an appropriate response when I ask you I look.

4. Most of the time when I fantasize, it's about you.

5. I get excited on simply seeing I have an email/text/whatsapp/bbm/phone call from you.

6. I expect you to call me.

7. I'm scared of losing my independence.

8. I'm  more forgiving of you than I really should be.
(Fellas appreciate THIS)

9. If I'm not having sex with you, I'm... a) ...having a fat day... b) ...not feeling "connected" to you. c)...blackmailing you to get something I want.

10. A man I love plans the occasional fancy-schmancy dress-up date and impromptu weekend getaways, and he buys my favorite candy in advance when we're just going to the movies.
(MESSAGE!!!! Its the little things that count guys)

11.When I compare my flabby tummy to a kangaroo pouch, say nothing.

12. You should never tell me what to do.

13. My breasts love much licking and sucking.
(You should have no problems obliging to this one.)

14. I'm very impressed when you ask for my advice.

15. Women get urinary-tract infections easily, so watch (and wash) your fingers.

16. You're sexy when you're: shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, holding a baby.

17. I need to hear how you feel about me. OFTEN.

18. If I'm not feeling loved, I will start looking...
(This goes both ways)

19. Even nice girls like hushed dirty talk in public.

20. For the record: I'd rather you break up with me than cheat.

21. It's cheating as soon as you're doing something with her that you wouldn't want me to see, hear, read...

22. You should know all this and more without my telling you.

Food for thought

50 Things Women Wish Men Knew

Be A Woman About It

Gone are the days of little Susie home maker. In a millennium when females are equal if not superior to their male counterparts, women have tapped into the strength they were born with to accomplish more than whatever could have been imagined.

They have made great strides in politics, law, medicine etc and in doing so enriched the quality of life for all mankind. That being said it simply amazes me the amount of bullshit that women allow themselves to get caught up in. 

The petty tirades, cat fights and unnecessary name calling does nothing to aid in our quest to find the cure for cancer or our overall benefit in whatever form it may come.

We are all guilty of indulging in it, I can readily admit that I have fallen victim to it as well. No one is asking you to be friends with someone your 'spirit' genuinely 'doesn't take to' or to go out of your way to be super nice to someone you may think is a total bitch. My suggestion is this, be cordial. Limit the ill mannered words because the same bitches you talk to about her will be the same ones to carry the news adding there own twist to an already unsavoury story.

If you feel so strongly about your feelings and your convictions approach the other person. The petty squabbles back and forth and side eye glances in public does no one any good especially when the murder rate is where it is with an eye opening realization that women have been stabbed, shot, robbed and left for dead as well. If your not 'ballsy' enough to approach them then keep your thoughts to yourself because people are coming up missing my dear and 2011 is not quite over.

The time you take to call a girl crazy you can take to fix or improve upon something in your own life.

The time you find to scrutinize someone's relationship is the time you could have taken to figure out why if you're so perfect your ass is still single.

The energy you take to figure out who is fucking who, is the energy you could use to figure out why no one is fucking you.

You get the gist of what I'm saying. 

Feel offended? Felt like this was aimed at you? Cool. Then there is probably something you need to work on.

No one is perfect so lets not pretend.

You have your 'clique'? That's cool to. Just remember how you secretly talk about them is how they secretly talk about you.

As women we need to rise above the pitfalls of this oppressive nature or history is doomed to keep repeating itself.

Take this with a grain of salt if you must, what you play forward is what you should expect to come back around a hundred fold.