I see you looking

It's so easy to sit and point on the imperfections in the life another. It takes our minds away from the problems we are faced with in our lives. We feel superior, more intelligent and better than the individual being criticized. 

What we fail to realize is our problems still exists, bills still have to be paid, our lives aren't any better because of the bashing.

We all at some point or another have indulged in this frivolous act, for reasons only we can explain. The past cannot be changed but we can make every attempt to not carry such a spirit of fruitless verbal labor into our futures. 

Everything is almost always easier said than done and no will instantly stop habits that have formed over the course of possibly a life time but the changed will be noticed. You will begin to see the positive aspects in situations more than the negative connotations that may have presented themselves and feel all the more lifted when you choose to take the high road.

I've come across females that made frustrated, men who acted as if they bled on a cycle every month and rather than retaliate I'm learning to ignore, or at the very lease refocus my attention.

I'm happier for it. I have learnt lessons and I've grown as individual.

Sometimes the stupid things that people do can help you to find a better you😊

What She Wishes You Really Knew

After reading a very simple yet insightful article I've decided to share some of what I've discovered. I agreed with most things in the article and will try to provide a link to it so that it can be read in its entirety at your leisure.

Men and women differ greatly and the lines of communication are almost always crossed. Hopefully these few #whatshewishesyoureallyknew tid bits help to change the way things are perceived by our male counterparts.

1. I will leave if you lie.
(If she stays distrust will only further ruin an already sundered relationship.)

2. I love it when you hug me from behind and whisper in my ear.

3. "Fine" is never an appropriate response when I ask you I look.

4. Most of the time when I fantasize, it's about you.

5. I get excited on simply seeing I have an email/text/whatsapp/bbm/phone call from you.

6. I expect you to call me.

7. I'm scared of losing my independence.

8. I'm  more forgiving of you than I really should be.
(Fellas appreciate THIS)

9. If I'm not having sex with you, I'm... a) ...having a fat day... b) ...not feeling "connected" to you. c)...blackmailing you to get something I want.

10. A man I love plans the occasional fancy-schmancy dress-up date and impromptu weekend getaways, and he buys my favorite candy in advance when we're just going to the movies.
(MESSAGE!!!! Its the little things that count guys)

11.When I compare my flabby tummy to a kangaroo pouch, say nothing.

12. You should never tell me what to do.

13. My breasts love much licking and sucking.
(You should have no problems obliging to this one.)

14. I'm very impressed when you ask for my advice.

15. Women get urinary-tract infections easily, so watch (and wash) your fingers.

16. You're sexy when you're: shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, holding a baby.

17. I need to hear how you feel about me. OFTEN.

18. If I'm not feeling loved, I will start looking...
(This goes both ways)

19. Even nice girls like hushed dirty talk in public.

20. For the record: I'd rather you break up with me than cheat.

21. It's cheating as soon as you're doing something with her that you wouldn't want me to see, hear, read...

22. You should know all this and more without my telling you.

Food for thought

50 Things Women Wish Men Knew

Divinity

Have you ever felt like you would take on the world if you had to? Repel bullets if need be? All for that one special person!!
That unconditional, unrequited love you feel each time you look into their eyes.
It's a beautiful feeling. A feeling a lot of us know first hand and a feeling others will come to know in their own time 😊

There is no greater joy than the accomplishment of being a parent.
Other things may come close but they don't quite compare. *blissful sigh* it's a wonderful feeling but alas some people never know the full and true joy of parenthood.

Many young people today are becoming parents by default in today's society. Some see the blessing in what they consider a mistake, accept the challenge and for the first time in their lives put another human being before themselves.

Others ignore what instinct they feel and continue to live, "young and wild and free" with no regard for the life they have helped to create and should help to mold. This is sad but thankfully we still live in a nation where it takes a village to raise a child; so if you find yourself able to lend a helping hand, do so. You never know when you yourself will need that helping hand.

Not sure you're ready for parenthood? Completely ignore Rodney Moncur's advice and take the necessary measurements needed. You'd never want an innocent life to suffer or to not have all that you can possibly offer because you were unprepared.

Just a little random advice 😁

We all of these days, no peppy message with this one

I'm crying everyone's tears
And there inside our private war
I died the night before
And all of these remnants of joy and disaster
What am I suppose to do

I want to cook you a soup that warms your soul
But nothing would change, nothing would change at all
It's just a day that brings it all about
Just another day and nothing's any good

The DJ's playing the same song
I have so much to do
I have to carry on
I wonder if this grief will ever let me go
I feel like I am the king of sorrow, yeah
The king of sorrow


I suppose I could just walk away
Will I disappoint my future if I stay
It's just a day that brings it all about
Just another day and nothing's any good

The DJ's playing the same song
I have so much to do
I have to carry on
I wonder will this grief ever be gone
Will it ever go
I'm the king of sorrow, yeah
The king of sorrow

I'm crying everyone's tears
I have already paid for all my future sins
There's nothing anyone
Can say to take this away
It's just another day and nothing's any good

I'm the king of sorrow, yeah
King of sorrow
I'm the king of sorrow, yeah
King of sorrow